Embrace Imperfection.

What have I learned about love?
Love is more than just finding that special someone with whom to connect. It begins with self-love. First we have to recognize that God loves each of us unconditionally. We can give ourselves a break and recognize our self-worth. Then we can recognize the worth of all those around us.

Before we can enjoy abiding love, we have to be able to love with pure motives. That means treating all of our associations with others as precious connections, that don't have to eventuate in companionship. We regard each individual as being lovable and unique.

As each of us learns to be more consistent in our love for others, we hope to eventually find that special someone who shares our values. During dating, everyone puts on their best face. Time is a great aid to growing together in common directions. Time also helps in discerning dysfunctional or unloving behaviors that could pose future problems. Taking time is one of the most under-rated aids to building lasting love.
My hope in sharing is that individuals might come to their own catharsis that God's love is a part of true romantic love. He sheds His love abroad through the hearts of the children of men. And He bestows it upon all who are followers of His Son Jesus Christ. He asks us to pray with all the energy of heart to be filled with His love. Loving relationships are the fulfilling aspects of life and growth.